Praying to get your ex back Pray to God for getting back together

We have a new video! It features our nine prayers for getting back an ex, set to music.

You can watch it on our main site, HelpGettingBackTogether.com.

Here is a sample of one of the prayers:

O God, almighty and all-knowing,
help me in my time of need.
Open my eyes to behold
the true heart of the one I love,
so that I may understand
what is required of me
to win back the affection and intimacy
we used to share.

Amen.

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Depression and Anger Go Together

By Owen Jones

Anxiety and depression are almost certainly the causes of uncontrollable anger. When a person is continuously worried about problems they have no control over or even problems they do have control over, it often results in depression. If you feel that, there is no hope then your depression can affect your life and cause you to sink into a spiral of despair.

Taking control of your emotions usually produces good results. If you feel that the world is falling down around your ears, then you are almost definitely thinking negatively, which brings on depression and anxiety. In this short piece, we will discuss some techniques to empower you to cope with anxiety and depression, thus relieving uncontrollable anger.

Firstly, let us examine the symptoms. Do you feel like you are going out of your mind? Do you scream in your head: I cant take it any more?. Do you feel like everyone is out to get you? Do you think people view you as mad? If you are undergoing any or all of these symptoms then you are probably suffering from some form of anxiety and depression.

If you can not find a way to think differently, then you will probably explode when your emotions bubble over and your anger bursts out. Instead of telling yourself that you are out of your mind, why not tell yourself that you are only having atemporary emotional problem and that you need to resolve the situation. Review all the problem areas carefully and search your memory to see if there are answers to your problems there. Reviewing like this, often opens doors to resources you may have forgotten about.

If you feel like someone is out to get you then you might have a chemical imbalance or a mental illness. Why not go to see your doctor or a mental health expert to learn more about the symptoms and find a way to regain control of your life. Anxiety and depression can play tricks with your mind but sometimes the thoughts are simply the result of a chemical imbalance.

If you think that people think you are going crazy, you might care to remember that most people have their own problems and have no time to analyze you as a person or your life. When you walk into a room and think that people are staring at you, you might want to remember that people observe things around them, making sure everything is OK and then return to their own private lives.

If you feel like you just cannot take it any more, just bite your lip and walk another mile. When times are difficult, it does not mean it is the end of the world, although sometimes it may seem this way. If you are struggling to pay bills, fighting to hold a family together, or having difficulty with your children then remember that we all have these problems at some time or another in our lives.

Are your children driving you out of your mind? If they are, take time out. Go and do something entertaining or some exercise. This very often relieves the stresses that lead to anxiety, depression and anger. Life is just too short to worry about the things in life that you do not have control over. If you have problems, the answers lie within you, so it pays to look into your head.

If you are really struggling to reach your goals then you might want to break them down into smaller more realistic segments and work patiently to achieve them. If you set goals that are within reason, you will not need to get stressed out finding a way to achieve them.

It is important to treat yourself every day. Learn some coping responses that will benefit both your mind and your body. If you feel bogged down, you might want to take deep breaths say,ten times.

Curling up on a couch and watching a favorite movie can benefit your mind and your body, if you want to let your thoughts wander. However, learn to focus on what you are doing instead of worrying about what you are not doing. This often clears the mind and helps you to relax.

If you are subject to unbridled anger, you will most probably have problems for the remainder of your life unless you learn to master your emotions. Remember that depression leads to uncontrollable anger. - 30535

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Does your ex girlfriend want to get back together

We have a new article: Does your ex girlfriend want to get back together? at HelpGettingBackTogether.com

Does your ex girlfriend want to get back together, or what? Say your ex calls you out of the blue, long after you broke up. She is friendly, and wants your advice about buying a new car. Does that mean she wants to get back together?

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Getting Back Together Signs are not always as they appear

Getting Back Together: Signs are not always as they appear

When should you pay attention to signs your ex wants you back? You must know the difference between which signs are actual and which are unreliable.
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Getting back together with your ex boyfriend

Here is an excerpt from a new article on HelpGettingBackTogether.com:

"Getting back together with your ex boyfriend is hardly the easiest thing in the world to accomplish, particularly when you already know he isnt interested in getting back together. The question becomes whether the fact he doesnt want you back will be true permanently, or whether it might be possible to change his mind. Either might be true, depending on your unique situation. "

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  How to flirt with your ex-girlfriend
  
  How to flirt with your ex-girlfriend: Your self-confidence has taken a big hit, but those old sparks just might come back if you bring a bit of playful flirting back to your relationship.
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  Will your ex want you back if you find someone new?
  
  Will your ex want you back if you find someone new? Beware; jealousy can be a two-edged sword; unless you’re honestly seeking a new relationship, setting up a ruse might just backfire.
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  Will my ex ever come back?
  
  Will my ex ever come back? How can I make sure that if he does, he stays?
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  Should you add your ex on Facebook?
  
  Should you add your ex on Facebook? How will it impact the future of your relationship?
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  No contact rule - How long?
  
  No contact rule - How long? How long you follow the no contact rule to get your ex back depends on many things.
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  Is it okay to sleep with your ex if you want him back?
  
  Is it okay to sleep with your ex if you want him back? Or will it just lead to another painful breakup?

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Should You And Your Ex Get Back Together Rekindling The Relationship

Should you and your ex get back together? This is an age old question that every couple asks themselves when they come to the point of a break up. If you truly do want to get back together with your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend, then the first thing that you are going to have to do is spend a little bit of time soul searching.
You are going to have to decide whether or not it would be good for your ex get back together with you. Should you and your ex get back together? It is going to depend on what will make you truly happy.
This is also going to depend on whether or not you guys are going to end up walking down the exact same path as before. Can you address what problems occurred that caused the relationship to fail in the first place so that you can prevent it from happening again.

It is really easy for you to only think about the good times when a break up occurs. If you are going to answer the question, "Should you and your ex get back together?", you are going to need to be able to think about the entire situation objectively, including both the good times and the bad.

In reality, most relationships are definitely worthy of being saved. There are a few, however, that are unworthy of putting effort into attempting to save. So, should you and your ex get back together? It is going to depend on how much time you spent being happy with one another and how much time you spent fighting, disagreeing or having problems?

If the relationship was characteristically unstable, then it might be a good idea not to rekindle things.
So, should you and your ex get back together? Maybe not.

If you should get your ex back together, then, you should know that pestering your ex or cramming yourself down their throat is not going to make things better. In fact, the best thing that you can do is step back, give your ex some time, and do your own thinking about the situation before you make anything happen.

Do not plead, argue or beg your ex to get back with them, because desperation is never attractive and will only make everything significantly more difficult for you.

Stop beating yourself up over breaking up with them, even if you regret doing whatever it was that led to the break up in the first place, because the past is the past and it is time to focus on the here and now.

Should you and your ex get back together? Its time to play it cool so that you can wait and see. Dont rush into anything, push anything or act with desperation, because this will undo your ability to rekindle things with your lost love.
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New article in the How to Survive an Affair section

Excerpt from Cheating hurts: He doesnt understand how I feel after his affair...

"Its like he doesnt understand at all. He acts like Im the one whos killing our marriage because I wont let it go. He thinks its over and done with and in the past, and I should just move on like he has. Make like its no big deal -- but I cant. Why doesnt he understand how much it hurts? How can I communicate to him what hes done to me?"

Could those words be yours?

Do you feel like, even though youre still living with your husband after he had an affair, your marriage might not recover because he hasnt acknowledged the injury hes done to you?

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Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back Do You Know the 4 Tricky Methods

Here is an excerpt from a new article on HelpGettingBackTogether.com:

During my research, I have noticed something interesting. When guys are advising each other on the topic of "How to get your ex girlfriend back," they mostly talk about tricks they can use to get her back.

This is in contrast to the approaches that women are drawn to. Women seem to focus on what they did wrong, what the guy did wrong, what needs to change, etc. Women are asking, "What can I do to make him like me again?" But guys are asking, "How can I trick her into getting back with me?"

Read the full text here, about tricky methods to get your ex girlfriend back: Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back - Do You Know the 4 Tricky Methods?

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No Contact Rule

The no contact rule, explained:

A crazy thing happens when you show another person that you dont want or need them; by giving yourself enough time, you realize that you can manage just fine without your ex and your ex will be able to subconsciously pick up on this next time you contact them.

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What Are The Most Effective Get Him Back Secrets

If youre going through a breakup that you dont want you might be wondering how you can get back with your ex.  Are there really any "get him back secrets" and if so, what are they?
If you are looking for some relationship secrets Ive got good news and Ive got bad news.
The bad news is that there arent, at least as far as Ive ever heard, any secret techniques to get back with your ex.  There are no secret potions or love spells or magic tricks that will bring your ex back crawling on his hands and knees just pleading with you to take him back.
The good news is that you dont need secrets.  All you need is an easy to follow, simple step by step "road map" that you can use to reconcile with your ex.  If you find a good plan and follow it, even though it may be hard sometimes to stick to, the results that you get might have you believing that it was magical after all!
If you truly want to get back with your ex the first thing you need to do, even though this is going to sound weird, is to stop talking to him.  If you are constantly contacting him this will likely backfire for a few reasons:
1) He wont be able to miss you.  You want him to start to doubt his decision to end the relationship.  He needs to miss the times you spent together and the things you did.  If youre constantly trying to contact him how can he miss you? 
2) If you wont leave him alone you are just becoming an annoyance.  That is not how you want him to think of you, is it?
Another thing you have to avoid is the tendency to want to fix the relationship and change yourself so he will come back.  While it is important for you to understand what qualities you have that might need some work, you should never change who you are just to accommodate someone else. 
If the two of you arent compatible then its time for you to move on, no matter how painful it might be.  Its simply not healthy for you to reinvent yourself for every relationship you have and it is a good way to find yourself in one abusive relationship after another.
And last, but not least, communicate.  That doesnt mean cry, nag, beg or threaten.  That means to have an adult conversation where you can openly and honestly explain to him how youre feeling.  Its also important that you let him tell you how he is feeling too.  This isnt the time to get angry or upset over what he tells you.  This needs to be a safe zone for both of you to honestly express yourself.
If you think that your relationship really is worth saving and you want " get him back secrets" than follow the list above.  This is an honest and proven way to reconcile with your love.
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Getting your ex back when you have children together

When you have children together, it might be easier or harder to get your ex back. This article explores both possibilities:

When you have children together, breaking up is harder. You have to be rational and calm even though thats the last thing you feel like being. Still, some people believe the trade-off for the breakup being so hard is that getting back together is much easier.

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Does no contact work to get your ex back

Here is an excerpt from a new article on HelpGettingBackTogether.com:

"The short answer is, "Yes." Certainly, it works better than anything else. It works better than contact of any kind -- especially constant, annoying contact, like when you keep texting or calling or emailing or otherwise harassing your ex. "

Read the full text here, about how the no contact rule works to get your ex back: Does no contact work to get your ex back?

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Mindpower Secrets Revealed

By Brian Parry

Scientists estimate that we only use around ten percent of our mind power. - Only ten percent! Can you imagine what would happen if you could access the remaining ninety percent? The results would be incredible!

Scientists agree that people who exhibit psychic and extra sensory abilities must be able to use these abilities due to somehow using that 90% of the human mind which usually lies idle. Some people appear to have these abilities from birth but others develop their mind power and start using these latent talents later on in life.

Were not sure yet how it works, but there is ongoing research into how our own mindpower can influence the world we live in.

Some studies even point towards the ability of our own minds to change reality. Our minds may be molded by the world less that they mold it, it seems.

The Secret and other works about the law of attraction lay out how to use mindpower to change their lives and even the world!

In case you have not come across it before, the law of attraction concerns the whole universe and states that there is a cause and effect for everything we do. So whatever you think about you will get! You must however communicate with your subconscious mind to tell it what you want; otherwise it presumes you want everything to stay as it is. Scientifically this is known as a state of homeostasis.

It seems that not only is the subconscious the prime mover behind psychic powers like remote viewing and telepathy, but is also our conduit to the energy of the universe around us.

Now the key to the development of your mindpower is to communicate with your subconscious mind. But how exactly do you do this? There are a number of ways.

Affirmations:- Affirmations are a well known positive thinking technique. When you repeat a positive affirmation to yourself, your subconscious begins to understand and begin using your untapped mindpower and start making your wishes a reality.

If you needed to boost your self esteem, you may tell yourself things like I am confident and well liked. If you want to break a habit, you can use affirmations like I only eat healthy foods.

With consistent repetition affirmations really do work. You communicate with your subconscious mind, telling it to do something different and it does! It makes you behave differently.

Follow this line of reasoning and youll see that you can change everything; not just your own behavior but reality itself can be molded by your own mindpower!

Visualization:- You can also develop your mindpower using visualization. Visualization consists of closing your eyes and picturing the things you want to happen in your minds eye. Your subconscious mind responds to the images which you focus your thoughts on and begins using your mindpower to make them a reality. You can visualize anything you want and with practice, youll increase your mindpower and make it possible.

You can use visualization to help you develop some of the psychic abilities which are naturally present in every human being. You can visualize yourself predicting the future or communicating via telepathy. If you keep practicing, visualization can bring these latent abilities to the surface and increase your mindpower even further.

Hypnosis:- Hypnosis has long been known as a way to communicate with the subconscious and to increase mindpower. A hypnotist can give suggestions to your subconscious which it will act on.

Alternatively you can try self hypnosis where you listen to a recording of a hypnotherapist going through the session. The advantage of this, apart from the cost, is that you can keep listening to it over and over again.

Brainwave entrainment:- Brainwave entrainment uses new breakthroughs in audio technology. Certain frequencies attune your brainwaves resulting in many different benefits such as pain relief and improved memory.

Some frequencies attune your mind to the trance state where it becomes easy to speak directly to the subconscious and thus increase mindpower.

Other frequencies can stimulate the parts of your body known as the chakra energy centers. There is a chakra in the center of your forehead called the third eye chakra which is responsible for psychic powers.

In fact you do not even really develop these powers. They are inside you already. It is thought that humans many thousands of years ago had this enhanced mindpower, but it became repressed and locked deep inside the mind.

When we talk about developing mindpower, what we really mean is unlocking the potential psychic abilities which are present in every person and starting to access the potential of that 90% of the brain which we dont use every day. - 30535

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A getting back together success story

From Getting Back Together Success Stories

Probably my favorite example of a couple whove broken up and then created a very public "Getting back together success story" is singing superstar Pink, and hubby Carey Hart.

The couple met back in 2001 at the X Games. After a passionate 4 year relationship singer Pink (Alecia Moore) proposed to Hart while he took part in a Motocross race. She held up a sign in the pit lane which read, "Will you marry me?"

Hart obviously thought his girl was pulling his leg, until she held up another sign which read, "Im serious".

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How to flirt with your ex

Heres the first part of Flirting with your ex: 10 tips on how to flirt with your ex, plus 7 mistakes to avoid, a new article at HelpGettingBackTogether.com

Flirting with your ex boyfriend or husband is almost like flirting with any other guy. The techniques are the same. But one important thing is different: your state of mind.

Usually, if you find yourself thinking about whether or not you should flirt with your ex, not to mention how to flirt with your ex, it means you want to get him back. You probably are obsessed with him, and still getting over your break up -- and that means theres a danger you could go overboard when you flirt.

So for you, because youre flirting with an ex and not just any regular guy, the "Dont overdo it" guideline becomes especially important.

Lets review the basics techniques for flirting with a guy...

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Should you break no contact

Absence makes the heart grow fonder, so if you want to get your ex back you should try as hard as you can not to break no contact.

Understand that when you make contact too early after the breakup, this might work against you for there is still anger and resentment between the two of you. You will not have given your ex time to sort out the many conflicting feelings that might be going through their head. You should therefore avoid making things worse than they are at the moment. Patience pays off, and this is the best time to exercise it.

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Getting Back Together New from Dan and Sam!

Sam has her first article, too, at GoArticles.

I Want Him Back!

Dan has two there also:

Using Psychology To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back

9 Signs Your Ex Wants You Back
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PULL It Together Help Save Marriage

Those who want help save marriage from ending in divorce need to PULL it together. It is a hard thing to watch a marriage that was once so precious and important fall apart. Its heart breaking to sit by as the two of you start going your separate ways. If you dont want that to happen then do something about it. Pull it together to help save marriage.

Chill out:
Take a moment to catch your breath and step back from the situation. Not necessarily take a break from it but to just calm down. It is easy for things to get over-heated. Take a moment to catch your breath and give it a moment to cool off. When you were young you were probably told to count to 10 when you got angry so that you could give yourself a chance to get yourself under control.

The same principle applies here. Before you do anything else, take a breath. The next time something is said to you that makes you mad, calm down, get a hold of yourself and then let go of your anger. Only then can you truly learn how to communicate and take the next step to help save marriage.

Understand what is happening:
While you are “chilling out” and taking a moment to breathe, take a look at what is happening. This is where you try and look at the big picture and then look at things from other perspectives. From where you are standing at the moment things may look pretty bad. Try to look at it from other perspectives and it might not be as bad as you thought.

Try looking at it from an outsiders perspective and from the one you love. From those other perspectives you might find out why things have been getting out of control. There may be a relatively simple solution to help save marriage.

Laugh at yourselves:
This doesnt mean to make light of the situation but it does mean dont take yourselves so seriously. It is easy to make mountains out of mole hills. Things snowball out of control but when you are able to see what it was that actually made the snowball you may end up laughing at it.

It can be hilarious to find out how a minuscule  thing can turn into something so huge when it didnt have to. It can be hilarious if you are willing to let it be. Many times when people go through a rough time they will say, “Sometime we are going to look back at this and laugh!” Why wait?

Look for ways to improve:
Once you have had a chance to step back and catch your breath and then been able to get some perspective on the situation, you can move on. When you have realized that at its root, this situation or problems that you have been struggling with is really small and manageable you can get things on track.

The next thing that you need to do is commit yourself to finding a way to improve. If you are responsible for the little things that get blown out of proportion, then try stopping it. If you have learned that you overreact, then stop it. Improve the way you handle situations and everything else may just fall into place to help save marriage.

To help save marriage, PULL together and bring back what belongs together...the two of you.
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Getting back together what should you expect

Excerpt from a new article on HelpGettingBackTogether.com:

"Getting back together absolutely requires a quiet period between the breakup and the reconciliation. You might as well get this quiet period over with as soon as possible. "

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