How to Make Out With a Girl in 40 seconds or less For Real

If you’ve ever seen a guy in a bar walk up to a girl he didn’t know and make out with her almost immediately, it can be a completely mind-blowing experience. It may seem like it’s magical or out of reach – a special ability or super-power that someone is born with.

But it’s not. And it can be broken down into a few simple steps you can follow in order to make the same thing happen for you. In this article, I’m going to break down those steps.
The first step is to realize that about 90% of the difference between someone who’s really good with women and someone who’s not so good or mediocre with women, is the ability to spot a woman who’s ready to make out.

How to Make Out With a Girl ?

I know it sounds kind of crazy at first, but it’s true. If you walk into a bar and go up to any woman without knowing what signs to look for, your odds of success go WAY down.

You must know how to spot that woman who’s already in this “make-out ready” state, so you can walk up and be “that guy.”

Don’t buy into the myth that women don’t want this to happen.

Women are as sexual (if not more sexual) than guys are. Most of the time, this “turbo” make-out session never happens, because so many guys are afraid to go for it. And when this doesn’t happen, the girls end up going home alone or worse.. staying being kind of mean to a lot of guys in the bar/being resentful and angry because no one’s approaching them.

By putting this technique into practice, You want to discover how to see the women who you’re able to make out with in 40 seconds or less in the first place.

There are a few excellent indicators that will (especially in a bar atmosphere) tell you if a woman is game, or ready for an instant make-out session.

What To Look For

The first indicator is a woman looking down often. When a woman looks down often, she is accessing her emotions.

Let me explain… When we look in different directions, we access different parts of our brain. These are called “Eye Accessing Cues.” When a woman is in a bar setting and looking down, she’s accessing her emotional brain.

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If she makes eye contact with you, looks down then back up again, she’s saying: “I have an emotional response to you looking at me and I’m looking down.” And if she tilts her head down as well (and doesn’t just use her eyes to look down), she’s physically dropping herself a little bit lower and showing submission.

This gives you the ability to walk up and be the dominant man.

Now, if she looks at you, smiles and doesn’t look away, this could be a lot more difficult situation. Socially, she’s meeting you head on, and not showing immediate submission.

Women who you’re going to be able to walk up to and make out with in 40 seconds or less should automatically take the submissive role as a woman. That’s one quality which shows you’ll be able to quickly make out with her.

Another quality is that she’s actively looking around to make eye contact. This is crucial. A woman who is engaged with someone specifically and she’s not looking away is not going to be as easy to seduce in 40 seconds or less. It’s going to take much longer.

Again, you’re going to have to play a totally different kind of game when you walk up. You can’t just walk up and make out with her.

So instead, if you see a woman who is in a conversation but she’s constantly looking around and trying to make eye contact with a lot of people, this is probably a very, very likely opportunity for you and that’s a woman you can walk up to and immediately become sexual with.

Other traits are revealed in the way they’re moving and how they’re dressed. Let’s say she’s standing with her feet about shoulder-width apart. It’s less likely that a woman standing like this is going to be available for you to walk up and dominate. That’s because she’s standing in a dominant position, with stronger body language and she’ll probably be a lot more resistant.

Instead, you want to find a woman who takes up less space. She has her legs closer together and seems to be outside of a group, looking around a little bit.

Another thing is the way she’s dressed. If she’s dressed in a way that’s super flashy and attracting lots of attention, she probably isn’t the kind of girl you can walk up to and make out with in 40 seconds.

This kind of women is looking for attention – not for someone to dominate them. What you want is someone who’s in between “I don’t care” and “Stare at my tits, bitch!” Somewhere between wearing sweatpants with an elastic waistband to the bar and done up really, really beautiful and sexy with a really low-cut shirt. You want to find someone who’s in between those two extremes.

A lot of women who are on vacation fall into this realm. They don’t want to over dress or under dress, and don’t know how the bar atmosphere is going to be. They’ll usually come in open-minded, and start looking around trying to make connections. This is an excellent situation for you (and her, of course).

That’s what to look for and how you spot her in the first place. If you see some of those, you want to watch her for a second. If you think that she is the kind of person you can walk up to and do this, then proceed.

If not, I’d actually suggest you proceed anyway, just to see what happens.

Next, right after you get that done and you’ve seen your girl (there are probably three or four of these girls in a bar at any given moment) you’re going to walk up and start the scary part.
What To Do
This is where the most powerful kind of frame control comes in. It’s very, very important that you understand how to control someone else’s frame if you want to come across like you’re a pro at this.

By “frame,” I basically mean their “reality.” You’re controlling what they experience. You have to be able to stay in control of that experience in order to really bring her to the level where she feels comfortable making out with you immediately.

I’m going to give you a very quick, punchy, fast way of doing this. I’ll explain as quick as possible; that way you can go straight out and try it…

Here’s what I would say, word-for-word… Walk up to a girl, when you get up to her and right when she makes eye contact with you, I want you to SLOWLY put your finger up by your lips and say this, “Shhh?”

Then slow your speech pattern down and deepen your vocal tonality. And immediately say, “Wait just one moment.”

You can also say, “Stop for one minute.” I suggest using a bit of NLP here. Whenever someone hears “stop,” “wait,” or “don’t,” they immediately register whatever comes after that.

So if I say, “Don’t think of a black cat,” what do you do? Immediately, you think of a black cat and whatever version of one you have in your head.

So if I said, “Don’t try to make out with me,” or “Don’t make out with me right now,” girls are going to be consciously hearing, “Don’t make out with me,” but their subconscious minds will be hearing, “Make out with me right now!”

You’re attempting to sort of use real-life Inception to get making-out with you to be HER idea. She should be thinking, “I should make out with this guy.”

Now, during frame control you’ll be using a lot of these subconscious triggers in order to get this to go as fast as possible. Please only use this for good. There are lots of evil ways to use this.

Don’t try to seduce women who don’t want to be seduced. Again, that’s one of the reasons why it’s important that you notice a woman who really does want to be seduced by a man.

So to recap so far: you walk up, you put your finger over your lips and you tell her to “Shhh” for a second and then you say a sentence that starts with “don’t” or “wait” or “stop.”

My typical is “Don’t worry… right now.” That’s all I say. And I slow that speech down ? “Don’t?worry?……. right now.”

Then I go right into the next statement, which is, “You and I are going to have a secret. We’re going to secretly kiss and no one will know.”

And as I’m saying this, I’m leaning in… and you’ll be doing the same when you do it. You’re leaning in ever… so… slowly. At the same time, you’re looking from her eyes down to her lips and back up to her eyes again.

This is called “Triangulating.” Count to three looking at her eyes, then look down to her lips and count to two, look back up and count to three, look down and count to two… etc. Do that about three or four times as you’re talking.

This can be a lot to remember, so you may want to practice it a little bit. I wouldn’t expect you’re going to get it perfect the first time.

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So again, you say, “We’re going to have a secret. We’re going to kiss and no one is going to know.” From here on out, you’re really just filling up space with words as you’re leaning in so you’re still controlling the interaction.

So you’re going to very, very slowly, take your right or left hand ? whichever one is more accessible ? and reach around her back. You won’t pull her in toward you or anything yet, just touch her very lightly.
Signs That It’s Working
Is she looking at your lips? If she’s looking at your lips, you have a green light to go forward. If she’s looking at your eyes, you may want to wait a second, or turn around and turn back again and try it again.

This resets the meter in her mind, so to speak. When you turn around and turn back again, most people consider this to be a fresh start in a conversation. It’s a strange loop-hole in psychology.

For some reason, that’s how we are as humans. When someone turns away then turns back, we give them another chance moving forward. So if you’re getting some resistance, turn around, turn back, smile, and continue. If she gives you resistance again, you probably should back off and find another woman.

If she’s looking at your lips and seems to be very comfortable and excited, then proceed. You’ll move in very closely and speak almost directly into her ear.
!Important!
In a loud environment like a bar, you’ll want to speak louder, but don’t raise your voice. Make your voice very low so that you have to be very, very close to her ear for her to hear.

Then you’re going to keep talking… What I usually say is, “No one is going to see this. It’s just going to be our little secret. I promise I won’t tell anybody only if you promise that you won’t tell anybody either.”

As I’m saying this into her ear, I make sure that she’s feeling my breath on her neck. So I’m sort of breathing out a little bit more than normal as I’m speaking so she can feel that hot air on her neck.

This usually gets a very visceral, deep, sexual response from women when you do this.

As you’re speaking really close to her ear, you’ll, very slowly, press your cheek against hers as you’re talking. Then you’ll move you head over so that your mouth is closer to hers, and then… you’ll start kissing her.

And if you do this right, you start out with just one soft peck… then go straight into making out. It may not seem like it in this description, but 40 seconds is a long time. This process can happen in a lot less than 40 seconds – I’ve done it in less time, and I’ve seen other guys do it, too.
Practice It
What I want you to do is practice this approach. Maybe go for a minute or two at first, and then get to where you can do this in about 40 (or even 30) seconds.

You won’t use this tactic all the time. But when the opportunity is right, it’s really good to have this in your seduction arsenal. You want to make sure that you have the right kind of tools for the job, so to speak.

Whenever you see a girl who’s in that state and ready to be seduced, if you beat around the bush, engage in small talk or generally waste time, she’ll be turned off and you’ve lost a golden seduction opportunity.

Instead, when you spot this, you want to be able to see her, know that that’s what she wants, go in, and give it to her immediately. This is the major difference between guys who are rock stars at walking up and seducing a woman… and guys who wish that they were great at quickly seducing a woman.

There are a lot of other success factors as well. There are techniques on how to speak with the right tonality… how to touch her that allows her to feel comfortable and doesn’t turn off any of her weird alert switches… specific NLP triggers that you can use to connect and make sure she’s totally in your zone.

What’s taken me from a normal dude to a well-respected dating coach, is knowing a lot of short-cuts like this and knowing when to bring them out. And these short-cuts can also improve your game with women.

Remember these characteristics in women who want to be seduced, and remember ? it is possible to make out with a woman in 40 seconds or less.

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Getting Stress Out Of Your Life

By Patrick Sanders

Everyone comes up with some kind of unruly situation in their day to day lives which can cause stress and confusion. Whether it is anger at a relative or a hectic household routine, we all have our own problems that we have no choice but to deal with. But what differentiates between two similar people with similar problems is the way they deal with the given circumstances. This is why stress management programs were developed - to help people learn to deal with tribulations.

In a way we all manage stress in our daily routine. Some people might try to distract themselves with another activity and some may try to solve the problem step by step. This is exactly what managing stress means. But many people dont do it successful and end up feeling more anxious and perplexed. This is where a stress management program can help you.

There are a number of stress management techniques that self improvement gurus and experts have developed. These techniques can be learnt and put into practice so you can become a little more prepared to deal with anxiety. Many of them advise such time tested methods like self hypnosis, yoga and meditation.

Every stress management program talks about the simple fact that you need to give some time to yourself, so you can relax yourself from your frenzied routine. This alone time will help you develop a kind of immunity from outside pressures.

You can learn to relax while meditating or indulging in some other activity that you find works best for you. This way you are teaching yourself how to cope with anger, hurt, depression and work pressures. All you need to do is to take out some quality time for yourself. Stress management programs are conducted in groups and can also be taken up individually.

They will teach you how stress harms you and what causes stress in the first place. This way you can understand how you can deal with when such an incident occurs. These programs also teach useful techniques like time management, assertiveness and problem solving. Another aspect of these programs is teaching people to lead a healthy lifestyle, so they are healthy in mind and body and are more able to cope with challenging situations. Stress management is something that can benefit everyone from child raising housewives to parents of addicted teenagers, and from grocery store workers to business people. - 30535

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How to apologize to an ex girlfriend

Whether you committed some horrible wrong, or just did something petty and stupid to end your relationship, you regret it now and you want her back. The best way to get her back is a sincere, heartfelt apology.

When it comes to knowing how to apologize, sincerity is important, otherwise your strategy will backfire and your relationship may be permanently over. But, before you rush off to apologize to her on bended knee, take some time to ponder your situation. Think about the mistakes you’ve made and how you can avoid them in the future.

It’s important to realize that when you attempt to be open and apologize to an emotionally wounded ex lover, it’s very easy to fall into a shouting match full of blame and accusations. This is why you must carefully plan and manage this conversation. Before you speak even one word, consider carefully what you will say to avoid having your ex misinterpret and misunderstand your words. If what you really want is to have her back, consider this information on how to apologize the right way. Take the time to learn what caused your relationship to break down in the first place. She isn’t likely to forgive you if you tell her you’re sorry, but deep down you have no idea what for.

Women are fed up with crocodile tears meant only for show, especially if their ex was unfaithful to them. When you tell her you’re sorry, she’ll need something of substance in order to trust you again. Be sure you understand the issues in the relationship and take responsibility for your mistakes. Pinpoint the problems in your relationship that prompted you to cheat on her and be committed to working on correcting those mistakes.

Your apology should be both realistic and specific. Tell her how weak you were and that you’ve taken steps to become a better person than you were. You must also let her know that you are aware of her pain, that you regret causing it, and that you’re willing to do whatever it takes to show her just how sorry you are.

One thing to remember though is to avoid making lofty promises. While your intentions may be good, there’s nothing more detrimental to a newly healing relationship than breaking your promises. Really think about what you’re saying. You can certainly promise to curb your jealousy and show her more support, but you can’t promise her an entirely perfect and conflict-free relationship. When you are realistic about the promises you make, you let her know that you are sincere and serious about making things work.

You should also focus solely on the issues only if you want to apologize effectively. Mutual finger-pointing and saying hurtful things just for vengeance will get you nowhere. If your partner does begin to call you hurtful names, don’t take the bait and cause it to escalate. Be patient and let the moment pass.

Your betrayal has left her hurt and wounded, and she might even try to inflict verbal or physical harm on you. Be a patient listener as you try to reason with her. Knowing how to apologize properly is crucially important if you want to get her trust back. Just remember to be honest and sincere, and be willing to learn from past mistakes. Whatever you may have done, everyone deserves a second chance at love.
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The Essential Truth About Your Past Lives

By Richard Fox

If you believe in reincarnation, there are ways for you to figure this out today. There are some individuals out there who practice reincarnation as part of their religion, but others are simply curious. Whatever group you fall into, the answers lie in everything you do in this lifetime. However, you must take advantage of the clues you get along the way, and these are just a few ways you can go about doing it.

Keeping Track of Everything

Now, we know there are a lot of people out there who keep some sort of journal. Whatever its about today, we recommend starting another one for your reincarnation adventure. If you truly believe that your past lives are working against your future, write down everything you do throughout any given day. In the beginning it may not feel like much, but there will be pieces of the puzzles you can pick up when you least expect it.

Start by looking at your life today and see what clues you find. It doesnt matter if youre driving down the road and notice a billboard. The goal here is to figure out what type of a reaction youre having to that situation. It could be about the weather, your kids, the job, a television show, or even a stroll after dinner. You have to include everything or you wont be able to utilize all the information correctly.

All these are great, but the most overlooked area has to be your dreams. On occasion you will come across a dream that provides little hints to your past existences. For instance, if youre not in the military or have any friends enlisted, yet youre constantly having dreams about it, you may have been a soldier in a past life. If youre having a hard getting the dreams you want, tell yourself you want to learn more about past lives before heading off to bed. Then when you wake up, write it all down.

Try Therapy for Past Life Experiences

If you havent heard of PLR, it stands for Past Life Regression. There are several therapists out there that guide you through a regression period and help you understand the information that comes from it. Unfortunately there are only a few of these places available that truly train and certify their professionals. We suggest letting the International Association for Regression and Research and Therapies and the International Association of Past Life Therapists find a therapist in your area.

Open Your Mind to Meditation

This is a sketchy topic simply because some people have a hard time trusting the information they accumulate. We cant stress enough how important it is to trust your feelings, and if you can do this on your own in a private manner it will save you from spending the big bucks on classes and one on one services.

When you experience this for the first time, youre going to feel like youre daydreaming. You may see an image here and there, but it could be hard to decipher what is the past and what youre conjuring up that very moment. Remember, the mind can be very suggesting if you allow it to be.

Youve probably seen movies where individuals use some sort of visual stimulus to get started. It could be the flame of a candle or a pendulum, but they are both helpful. If the visual stuff doesnt work, you may want to try and meditate with sound. This could be from music, those audio sounds that help you sleep, or various other tools that are similar.

Have you heard about binaural beats? These are sound waves that shoot off different frequencies in each one of your ears. What it does is allows you to relax and reach the meditation traits of Zen monks. Even though they have been practicing this for years, it could take you minutes to utilize.

While all this is great, you have to find a place that will allow you to meditate properly. Having three kids in the family room, the phone ringing, and you trying to meditate just wont work.

So get yourself in a positive frame of mind before you even begin. Look for a comfortable place to start your meditation and allow yourself to relax the muscles and quiet the mind. You will notice that there will be times when certain thoughts creep in that are somewhat negative. When this happens you just have to let them go. Its going to take some practice, but in the end youll be able to form a positive meditation whenever you want throughout the day.

If you truly believe in reincarnation, the images you get will eventually help resolve something in your life. Just keep in mind that you cant always tell if something is from a past life or your present one. The only thing you do know is that if you log enough information, youre bound to find something that works into your past life scenario.

You may even come to the conclusion that your brother, mother, or father today, was once a part of your life many years ago. However, they may not have been of any relation, or could have been even closer then you are today. Whatever the case may be its unbelievable to think you knew your siblings 300 years ago in another lifetime.

In the end, everyone has their own beliefs about reincarnation. If you choose to do the regression process, most individuals find helpful and interesting information throughout the process, even if they dont believe in reincarnation in the beginning. - 30535

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How to ask out your ex girlfriend

Sup guys. I know this isnt really a "guide" but this is just my past experience that may help some of u. Well i know this may not have to do with a lot of people on the forum but if you have an ex-girlfriend and want to ask her out cause you still love her, you might be saying, "what do i do?" I went out with the same girl in 7th grade and 10th-11th grade.

Picture this, it is 10th grade the girl who was your dream going out with many different guys and you still love her. You might say, "WTF do i do to date this girl again." I didnt go out with anyone else until this point in my life other than her and she has gone out with like 6 guys after me. I honestly just couldnt move on from her in 10th.

I never really talked to her from 8th-9th but in the beginning in 10th we had long awkward convo while we were sitting in a free track talking about the dumb things i did in 7th. She said, "If i didnt screw up so much, we would still be together." I was stunned. A light bulb lit up in my head.


I started talking to one of her friends who was also my friend for a while in high school and she gave me some advice, "Go talk to her and apologize for what you have done in the past." Confidence is the key to success in this situation.

I texted her and asked her if i could talk to her at lunch and this really secluded area on the campus where all these nice trees/flowers. I told her, "Ever since you told me that we would still be together, i have been thinking about a lot of things. I was thinking that i was not good enough for u so i did those stupid things. I still have mixed feelings and care about you still." She interupted me and said, "Hey its fine if you dont want to tell me more about the feelings. Just lemme know if you wanna talk again."

I dont remember the whole convo cause now i am 2nd year in college but that was the main stuff i remembered. After 3-4 weeks of waiting for to text me i realized that i was the one who had to confront her and talk to her again. I texted her again, "Hey are you busy tomorrow at lunch. Maybe we can talk again at that place." She said, "Yea sure ."

It was the night before i was going to talk to her and at this point i couldnt sleep. I was going over the different possibilities of her reaction to, "I love you."
1. "Do i know you"
2. "You just pissed your pants"
3. "You gotta be joking me"
4. "...Umm okay..."
5. the best answer  "I love you too!!"

Believe me those 4 classes before i had to talk to her went so slowly. I was contemplating what to say. I finally met up with her at this table when she was talking to her friends and i said, "You want to talk now" I led her to the secluded area again and told her, "I wish that I could have had the golden opportunity to ask you out for the 1st time in 10th other than 7th cause i am much more mature now."

she smiled a little and turned a little red and said, "Okay... so what are you trying to say." I said, "I cant hide this anymore. I love you. I dont know if you feel the same but I cant get over you. It has been about 2-3 years but i am still in love with you and I want to have another chance."

She looked away from me for a second without saying anything, "I feel the same way but i never had the guts to tell you. I thought that finding other guys would make me feel more secure and happier after our painful break up."

I turned away and smiled and then i gained my composure again and said, "Will you go out with me." She said, "Yes" and hugged me.

We went out for about 2 years after that and then broke up before i could ask her to prom... Well that is my middle and high school social life. Hope you have learned something from my rant.

-Robin
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How To Treat Depression

By Barry Barker

The natural ways to treat depression are much for less than prescription drugs and are also considered to be efficient. These include practice, meditation, sleep, NLP and hypnosis in addition as having a balanced diet.

When it comes to natural supplements, the herb St. Johns wort is similarly considered efficient at managing sensations or changes of depression. Passion Flower is yet another remedy that helps dispel depressed feelings and supports a positive mental behavior.

Depression is a medical condition that needs to be treated. It is not a sign of weakness and ought not be looked at a womans illness.

Men can experience a loss of sexual drive and this only adds to their sensations of worthlessness. They see this as a failure and an indication of their manhood. This could not be any farther from the truth. It is a medical condition that is caused from their depression.

What causes depression is a lack of balance or state of disequilibrium of serotonin, a hormone, in the brain. It has been linked as a major contributor and a cause for an individual deciding to kill themselves.

Exercise is one of the good ways to treat depression because it acts as a mood booster and is believed to be better than prescription medications in preventing the recurrence of mild to moderate depression.

Yoga and acupuncture are also numerous of the other alternative ways to treat depression. Yoga assists alleviate the sensations or changes of depression because it quiets the mind and gets you into focus. The old practice of acupuncture then again, doesnt only restore your bodys emotional balance but similarly lessens the physical ache affiliated with depression.

Ive battled with depression over the years and depression is a major bummer. You see, I remember thinking I was just sad when it comes to everything and I didnt want to get out of bed. I didnt want to go to work. I did not want to deal with anybody and I just wanted humans to leave me alone. - 30535

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