Men Who Leave Their Wives

Many women have had to face the heartbreak of a relationship break up.  Its never easy, and most would do just about anything to avoid a break up.  Men who leave their wives have many reasons for doing so, but there are some things to keep in mind so you can hopefully avoid finding yourself in that painful situation.
One thing all women need to keep in mind, that might seem to go against everything theyve ever heard or believed, is that men and women arent all that different in what they want from a relationship, they just have different ways of getting it.
Men want their women to love, respect, and admire them.  Most men want to feel like they are meeting all of the needs of their wives and girlfriends and they want their women to show a high level of appreciation.  They want to be admired. 
Its important for everyone to feel accepted for who they really are and feel like they are appreciated for all they do. Men, and women, will leave a relationship if these basic needs arent met. 
One common misconception is that men leave their wives because they have found another women who they are attracted to. While this may be true to a point, they were most likely already feeling like their needs werent being met long before the other woman came into the picture. 
One of the difficult things for women to deal with is that most men either dont understand why theyre feeling the way they are or they are unable, or unwilling, to try to discuss it and come up with a solution.  They just know they are unhappy and are sick of feeling that way.
If you want to try to keep your relationship with your husband happy and healthy, its important that you understand that even though he may express his needs in a different way than you he still has the same basic need to be loved and admired that you do. He wants to feel like he is your prince charming and is the most important person in the world to you.  Meeting these needs will help ensure that your husband isnt one of the men who leave their wives.
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Stop My Divorce

Divorces are at an all time high.  Sometimes it seems that it’s easier to get a divorce than to get married. 
People get hurt in divorce.  The parties are forever scarred.  Children, if there are any, never get over the hurt.  Knowing this, you may be wondering “How do I stop my divorce?”
There are three steps to stopping a divorce. 
The first thing that you have to realize is that saying you’ve changed does not mean you really have changed.  If you are the person who is at fault in the relationship, it’s not enough to give lip service to the idea of change.
If you have been having affairs, for instance, it is going to take time for your partner to believe that you are no longer going back to your wandering ways.  It is not enough to tell your partner that you’re not stepping out anymore.  You will have to take concrete actions.  As an example, you may need to allow your partner to “monitor” your activities by checking in with him or her on a frequent basis.  If your job requires you to travel, you may have to look for a new job that keeps you close to home.
Other things besides affairs can mess up a relationship.  For instance, if the wife’s spending habits are causing money problems which weaken the marriage, she may have to commit to cutting up the credit cards and living on a cash allowance.  If the husband’s work habits keep him away from home too often, he may have to commit to being home by 6:30 every night no matter what.  At the crux of this step is what is the most important thing in your life?  If it is your marriage, you will make the necessary changes.  But don’t just give lip service to them.  Actions speak louder than words.
The next step is to avoid using emotional blackmail if you want to stop your divorce.  Recognize that love is NOT enough to save your marriage.  Telling your partner, “but I love you” in the heat of an argument will not win you any points.  When you say “I love you” at inappropriate times, your partner is forced to say “I love you, BUT…”  this weakens the emotional tie that love has between you.
Use the powerful “I love you” message when your wounds are mended, not at the heat of an argument. 
You can’t use logic or guilt to change your partner’s mind.  Arguing like this will only involve a spiraling argument.  If you feel you must win, then you will lose.  
Finally, don’t think that you can win an argument.  Some people like to use their superior logic or argumentative skills to “prove” they are right and their partner is wrong.  This may work in a formally scored debate, but in a marriage (which is scored on emotions not facts) it’s sure to fail.  Instead of arguing, solve the problem.  If your spouse brings up a fault in you, discuss possible solutions rather than argue back. 
Are you wondering how to “stop my divorce?”  Start by following the “stop my divorce” advice I’ve laid out in this article.
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Does my ex want me back Real questions with real answers

Here is an excerpt from a new article on HelpGettingBackTogether.com:

"I think this behavior in an ex girlfriend qualifies as a sign she wants you back. I think youre seeing her playing hard to get, and acting like she doesnt care.

Both of those behaviors are ones you see recommended for people who want to get back together with their ex. Since youre seeing it in her, some friend or website probably recommended it to her. Or maybe she even thought it up herself."

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How to get back with a girl who broke up with you

Another article excerpt from HelpGettingBackTogether.com:

"It seems like everything I read on the internet about how to get back with a girl who broke up with you is all one and the same. It makes me feel like I should come up with a new technique, so Im going to take a stab at that.

Here is what I came up with. Im laying it out as a 3 step process. "

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Only Human Getting Back With Your Ex

Getting back with your ex is an incredibly difficult thing to do because there been feelings hurt and hearts broken. What can make it worse is there are also probably very unrealistic expectations of what you want from each other. The thing to realize is that you are both human and fully capable of making mistakes. Not only that but it should be understood that both of you are going to make mistakes. The reason that you are broken up or divorced is that there were mistakes made on both of your parts. As much as you would like to believe it, neither one of you are perfect and are, actually, quite far from it. Getting back with your ex means realizing this.

While to get your ex back or trying to do that it is going to be very obvious and easy to point out the mistakes that the other made. What is going to be harder is to point out the mistakes that you made. You have to look closely and see what it was that you did that either helped make the split possible but helped make the situation and relationship as bad as it got. You have to own up to your part in the ending of the relationship.

You have to own your own mistakes. You can’t hide them. You can’t cover them up. You can’t make excuses for them. You can’t sugar coat them. You can’t pretend they aren’t there. You can’t do any of that and have the reconciliation effort succeed. Pointing fingers is what caused the split to happen in the first place. Pointing fingers is not going to help getting back with your ex. You are only human. That point may seem obvious but in the attitude we take sometimes we may not show we feel that way.

In getting back with your ex, you have to realize also that your ex boyfriend or ex boyfriend or ex husband or ex wife you no longer want to be your ex. You have to understand that if you want them to be with you for the long term or for life you have to realize how special they are to you. They can’t realize that if they can’t feel that you think that. They have to know that you want to be with them. If you treat them like trash for the mistakes they made and hold it over their head they aren’t going to feel very special. The mistakes they made may have been bad but you need to let them know that you want to be with them anyway. They have to see from you that they are special enough to look past their faults.

Isn’t that what you want? To know that even with all your faults that they love you still? What greater way is there than to show that to the person you want to be with? There is no other thing that is going to help them feel truly special. It doesn’t excuse mistakes but it says that what you have together is bigger and better than what it was that tore you apart. To get your ex back means realizing each other’s humanity and loving each other anyway.
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