How to know if your ex girlfriend wants you back

Have you recently broken up with your girlfriend and trying to win her back? Do you still find it difficult accepting that she is gone? Is it still difficult for you believing that this was someone who not too long ago, couldn’t just live without you but today seems doesn’t even give a hoot about your existence? Are you contemplating trying to win her back or lacking the courage and or knowledge to get her back?

Fortunately, you should realize that the chances of your getting her back are alive and well. That is, if she is in any way displaying any of the following signs which generally indicate that she still have an interest in getting back together with you. All you need to do is to be tactful in how you handle the situation as you attempt winning her back for good.

1. Constantly tries to keep in touch

Is she always calling you, texting or emailing you to check on how you are doing? While at the surface it might seem normal for her to want know how you are doing, you should be able to tell when she wants to keep you in her daily life. If she was really over you, she wouldn’t be that bothered.

Things are this point can get a little tricky, because if you allow the situation to persist, you may from being a temporary ex boyfriend become her permanent friend, a situation you really don’t want to get into. So while not ignoring her altogether which you really can’t afford to do, you should keep a healthy distance.

2. Becomes jealous at the mention of other girls

It is a good sign of her lingering interest in you if your ex girlfriend reacts to certain things you do or say. Of particular interest here is she often gets jealous whenever you unintentionally talk about other girls. The later indicates that she is not fully ready to let go of you yet even when she apparently appears not wanting to take you back. She still believes that you “belong” to her to a certain degree.

As a caution, try and appreciate the fact that she still has feelings for you which present an opportunity for you to get back into her life, rather than abusing the privilege and purposely trying to get her to become jealous. Remember that she still has the upper hand and that you are not yet emotional strong enough to start playing mind games with her.

3. Tries to make you feel jealous

As if her getting jealous is not enough, a sure sign that you are well on target to getting her back will be if see seem to be trying to make you feel jealous by equally mentioning other guys. However, most guys at this stage might wrongly interpret this as a sign that she might have moved on.

You need to really study her body language at this stage more so if she has shown any previous sign of jealousy as aforementioned. You must remain calm and calculated, as this will make her to try harder in getting you to react thus disarming her.

4. Excessive flirting and unbecoming conduct

This is a simple sign that there is still some element of attraction between you and her. While these signs might seem like an open invitation to get back into the relationship, it is however better to give her some space.

While the attraction still appears to be there it is not enough to keep her, let her come to her own conclusion on your ability to give her what she wants. If you jump in too early, you risk blowing it all away.

5. Keeps “Loose Ends”

How much of her stuffs are still in your apartment? Why does she keep dropping by every now and then to pick up one thing or the other? Simple, by leaving some of her stuff in your place, she has an open invitation to come to your place on a regular basis. Your ex girlfriend is simply not ready to let go of you yet.
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We all know the effect alcohol can have on someone...you lose your inhibition...and quite often lack common sense...especially if you are driven by any frustrating feelings...Drinking because youre having a night out with your friends is one thing...but to try to drink in hope of drinking your problems away...is something you want to avoid at ALL COST...It is counter productive... and you will most likely act or say something stupid

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How do you know if your ex wants you back

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"Worst case, your ex is only messing with your head. If your ex is just playing mind games to get your attention, then the behavior you are observing isnt a sign your ex wants you back. It could be mean-spirited or vengeful. Or, if your ex hasnt found someone new yet, you could just be seeing boredom, or a desire to get you back into bed. You cant necessarily call that mean, but its not in your best interests to allow yourself to be used in that way."

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How to get a guy back with minimum pain

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"When two people break up, they dont get back together without first going through what I call a "quiet period". Since this quiet period plays an essential role in how to get a guy back, you might as well let it happen now. "

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How to make an ex girlfriend want you back

There are some moments in life when the perfect relationships face break-ups. The guy and the girl, either both or anyone of them could be responsible for this. When they get separated for some time, they realize that they cannot live without each other. At this point you will definitely want you ex-girlfriend back in your life but how to make ex-girlfriend want you back? This is the real problem and you cannot force her to accept you again. But this can be done in a simple way if you know what a woman wants from a man. This actually varies from woman to woman and also depends on some other factors like her personality and how you have treated her before. You have to study her personality and know her preferences.


A woman can be very choosy while picking her ideal. She might have made a list of qualities she wants to see in her ideal and before fulfilling those requirements she might not allow anyone to have a chance with her. However she can compromise some of the points if she sees something even better in a man and hopes that things will go perfect in the future. What a woman wants might sound simple but it is very hard to believe. You can make ex-girlfriend want you back if you know how to make her happy. Women are far more sensitive than men so doing small things can make a lot difference. Listening carefully what she says, coming home and cooking delicious food rather than asking her “what’s in dinner” when entering the door, giving her a hug at times, all these are heart wining actions.

Women are attracted to such men who take care of themselves and have confidence in themselves. Such men attract the women just like a flame attracts the moth. You need to improve this “X” factor in your character. A woman wants safety and security. She wants the assurance that you will be there for help whenever she needs you. This type of assurance has nothing to do with material things like money. This simply means that she feels taken care of while you are around. Most of the women prefer a balance and order in their life. This means the existence of a routine in place. A woman is a natural caretaker at heart and cares about everyone. When she cares for someone special, she will do anything to show it. To make her glad to continue doing things for you, give her the feeling of appreciation. If you don’t appreciate her, she will consider herself taken for granted and will stop doing extra efforts.

Love is the most powerful thing among all but you has to express it verbally or by your actions. You have to ensure her that you care for her as much as she cares for you. A man is very hard to read so don’t assume that she must have known the feelings of your heart. Take care of these few things and you can be a man that your ex-girlfriend will want back again.
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Fear of commitment

(by Dan K. Jenkins)

Today I was writing about fear of commitment. I was trying to pull together thoughts on How to get your ex boyfriend back, and deal with his fear of commitment, but I didnt like the way it was going.

The more I thought about it, the harder it seemed. I kept thinking... if you want your ex to come back to you, and make a commitment, but hes been showing you all along that he doesnt want that, and in the end he broke up with you for that reason... then is getting your ex boyfriend back the best course of action?

I wrote this much on why your ex might not want to commit to a serious relationship with you:

1. He doesnt need to commit in order to get the things he wants. Maybe all he wants is a girl on his arm when hes out in public, to validate his manliness and uphold his reputation.
   
   Maybe all he wants is a steady source of sex. Maybe all he wants is someone to do things for him, and at the same time make him feel like hes needed.
   
   If this is all he wants, he can get it without committing to you. There are other women who will do these things. And if he was beginning to feel like commitment was the price hed have to pay to keep you, its understandable that the pressure prompted him to break up with you.
   


2. He needs his own space. He needs a place he can call his own, where he can be sure he wont be interrupted -- by you or anyone else uninvited.
   
   Notice how there are so many tv shows these days, about "man space" or "man caves"? Notice how, on real estate shows, guys are always trying to find a house with a room that will be theirs alone, away from the family?
   
   Good or bad, its become accepted that men need to have a place to escape. If you and your ex shared a small living space where you were always within earshot of each other, and he never had many opportunities to be home alone, this was part of why he broke up with you.
   


3. He cant stand the idea that hell only have one sex partner for the foreseeable future. He knows that committing to you means promising to be faithful for a long, long time. He doesnt want to commit to you and then be unfaithful -- he likes you to much to do that to you -- and so he doesnt want to commit at all.
   
   Unfortunately, time is the only sure cure for this problem. By the time men reach their mid-30s, they adjust. Having a "sure thing" becomes more important than having variety. This is why so many guys arent able to commit until they are older.
   
   If you can maintain a high level of sexual excitement with him, you may be able to keep him from wanting other women. Its not a sure cure, but it works in some relationships so its worth a try.
   


4. Hes afraid hell find someone better than you. Maybe he loves you plenty, but hes afraid hell commit to you and then later meet someone hed rather have instead -- someone more successful or talented or better looking, who would gain him more respect from his peers.
   
   This is another problem that only time will cure. As he gets older, hell discover that all women have a lot of common, and most of them, like you, make excellent mates. All you can do is be the best woman you can be. Do this for yourself, not for him.
   


5. He needs his independence. He needs time away from you. If you were together from the time you got off work until morning, and all day on weekends, he couldnt handle that. And if, whenever you were apart, you let him know you wished you were together, this would have frightened him.
   
   This is the opposite of needing his own space for hibernation. Needing independence means he needs to be out and about, doing whatever he wants.
   
   If you and your ex went everywhere together, and he didnt have many opportunities to go out without you, this was a factor in your breakup.

None of that is really what youd call advice. Ill throw it out here in case it help somebody someday, but the only true "advice" I have is this:

If your ex boyfriend broke up with you because you pressured him too hard to commit, then in order to get him back youre going to have to give up on the commitment requirement.

Youll need to get him back by convincing him you dont want commitment any more. Keep in mind the points listed above, as you do this. Convince him he can keep his independence, for example.

After you get your ex boyfriend back, be patient -- maybe for a long time. Then, without being too clingy, bring up the subject of a permanent relationship again.
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