How to win your ex girlfriend back

The good news is that it is definitely possible to win back your ex-girlfriend, even when it may seem hopeless.

The "bad" news is that it may take time to get back your ex and you need to find the right strategy. We will talk more about the right strategy below.

Here is an outline of the three basic steps that will maximize your chances to win back your ex-girlfriend:


STEP 1: Getting A Clear Head Again


If you feel very upset and hurt right now, then the first thing you need to do before trying to win back your ex-girlfriend is to give yourself at least some time to feel better again.

Do whatever works for you, such as long walks outside, meditation, movies, music, or even some form of therapy or spiritual soul-searching.

It is said that "tears cleanse the soul" and that is definitely true after a breakup.

It is a difficult time and it can feel truly devastating.

To get through this faster, it is best to allow yourself to feel the grief and heartache that come up. Yes, it feels uncomfortable, but it is much better than holding it in. Read our main article on how to get over a breakup.

The less upset you are, the more clearly you will see your situation and the easier it will be not to make these 7 very common mistakes when you try to win back your ex-girlfriend.


STEP 2: Why Do You Want To Win Back Your Ex Girlfriend?


Now you need to ask yourself why you want to win back your ex-girlfriend.

Be as honest as possible with yourself about whether you should win back your ex-girlfriend. It can save you a lot of heartache and misery later on.

You need to decide whether your ex-girlfriend is truly good for you.

Here is the link to our main article on this topic: Should you win back your ex-girlfriend?

If you are convinced that your break up was truly a mistake, then you can start preparing a good strategy or plan of action to win back your ex-girlfriend.


STEP 3: Your Plan of Action


We already looked at the common mistakes and what NOT to do when trying to win back your ex-girlfriend. Now let us look at what you can do to win back your ex-girlfriend.

You need a good plan of action.

You can either choose to create such a plan yourself or you can choose to apply proven strategies tested by thousands of others, such as the Get Her Back For Good Guide or The Ex Recovery System.

Every relationship is different, and so you will need to customize your strategy to win back your ex-girlfriend.

When considering your strategy to win back your ex-girlfriend, it is especially important to keep two things in mind:

• the specific reason for the breakup and
• the length of your relationship with your ex-girlfriend.

The length of the relationship you and your ex had determines how much time you have to win back your ex-girlfriend.

So if you had a longer relationship, you have more time to win her back. But if you had been together only for a few months, then giving her three months of space will not be helpful if you want to win back your ex-girlfriend.

The reason for the breakup has a lot of influence on what is the best strategy to win back your ex-girlfriend. For example, if you were too needy before or after the breakup, then you need to give her more space as a first step to win back your ex-girlfriend.

On the other hand, if you did not give your ex-girlfriend enough attention, then you may need to become more active to win back your ex-girlfriend.
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How to understand ex girlfriend

We had a bad break up nearly a year ago, and I dont want to go into it, but Ill say that ever since then a lot of games have been played. She often will only communicate with me when she wants to do something, and wont usually answer my texts if I answer her to come over instead. Not too long ago, she wanted me to come over and asked me to stay over. After that, she didnt talk to me for a few weeks even though nothing bad happened.

So she texted me asking some rude questions and would never reply to mine a couple times during the week. Well today, she actually asked if I wanted to come over and watch a movie, and the plan was for me to come over at 1 am. So I called her and told her I was coming. Well, when I got there, she claimed shed be back in 20 more mins, and I said thats fine. So I waited, then she texts me 5 mins after Im supposed to be there saying shell be there soon.

I waited another 30 mins and she didnt show. Then she said she was coming again. I waited 20 mins more, and finally got fed up and drove 30 mins back home.

I then decided to text her and said she was a b**** for the first time, even though shed acted much worse in the past.

10 mins later, I get a reply saying, "My friend got really drunk. I was taking care of her and then my phone died. I just got back home now. Im sorry, but you shouldnt call me ***** :("

So I decided not to reply since I was angry having wasted 2 hours, then she called. She said she was sorry (a first for her), and claimed she was telling the truth. But, Im not sure if I believe her seeing how many times shes lied in the past. So if she cares about this friend she probably barely even knows, why didnt she care enough to text or call me and let me know what was going on instead of having me wait?

And now she wants me to drive out there again and see a movie tomorrow, when shell never drive out here. Have any idea if shes telling the truth and how I should react?

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