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How to ruin your ex girlfriends life

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A Massachusetts man was sentenced to seven years in prison after spending the better part of the past year tormenting his ex-girlfriend online, according to a WLJA report.

Boston native Bruce Stimon, 47, met Arlington, Va., resident Soraida Hicks on an airplane in 2011 and they began dating long distance shortly thereafter. Stimon showed Hicks with gifts during that time, including a new iPhone, which he put on his own family plan—a move that would allow him to access information belonging to her friends and contacts.

Then he used that contact information to tell Hicks friends that shed contracted an STD.


Hicks broke up with Stimon shortly after finding out about his antics, but the tormenting continued. Before long, Hicks started receiving phone calls from adult men in northern Virginia who were looking for an escort. She looked online and found that her name and face had started to show up on escort sites around the Web.
Whats more, Stimon had filled out some of her profiles with the phone numbers of her employer and direct supervisor. She was fired from her bank job just a few days before her daughters Twitter followers were made privy to a video of Hicks and Stimon having sex.

"It was devastating," Hicks daughter told WJLA. "I would go into the bathroom stall and just cry and would come back to class and act like everything was okay."

But it wasnt okay, and the abuse didnt stop. Stimon turned to porn sites to advertise Hicks and her daughter as a "mother and daughter" sex package. Eager readers started showing up at their doorstep a few days later.

Stimons scheming went on for months before police could catch him. It took his venturing from Boston down to the Hicks Arlington neighborhood in an effort to slash his ex-girlfriend’s tires to get the man arrested.

Hicks, whos been active in her efforts to get her name removed from the porn sites, reports that shes only had limited success.

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How to ruin an ex girlfriend life

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Dear Dr Victoria… I split from my ex-husband around three years ago. We’ve both moved on but have remained great friends. At the moment I don’t have a boyfriend, but his new girlfriend has a real problem with our platonic relationship. She’s an absolute bitch.

My ex and I share lots of mutual friends and mix in the same social circle. We regularly chat on the phone, and meet up for drinks. She tells my ex that she likes me, but I know if this is a lie. She spreads rumours about me and puts me down in front of our friends. She even told a guy I was dating I had herpies. This isn’t true.

I really value my exes friendship and I love him dearly but not in a sexual way. I’m now at the end of my tether and am seriously considering ending our friendship. Should I walk away or stand my ground?


Dr Victoria says…This is a difficult situation, but I’m sure your ex-husband and your mutual friends have brains of their own and can come to their own conclusions about what’s going on here.  His new girlfriend is obviously insecure about the friendship you have with her boyfriend.

You could talk to her and reassure her that you’re just friends, but really I doubt it will change anything.  It could make her even worse as then her insecurities are being directly confronted and at present her unreasonable behaviour is protecting her from admitting to these insecurities.

I do think that you or your ex-husband should confront her over individual incidents.  If someone says you have a sexually transmitted disease when you don’t, you’ve got every reason to be angry and why shouldn’t you bring this up with her and ask her why she said it?  This is the only mature adult thing to do.

However, there’s no reason to store up all these incidents silently, allowing the resentment to build up until you end up criticising her for everything she’s ever done.  Deal with each incident as it comes up and keep a level head.

There’s no need to bad mouth her to anyone who will listen.  You want to appear as the calm, reasonable and rational person here.  If you friends are aware of the simple facts then they will come to their own conclusions.

Your ex-husband will also come to his own conclusions.  If she continues to behave in this way, especially spreading lies about you, I doubt she’ll be his girlfriend for much longer.

There’s no need to end your friendship with him either.  This is way too drastic and unnecessary.  Why cut off your nose to spite your face?  If things are getting tricky and causing you too much stress then you can always cool things down for a while and see him less often, but this is down to you.  If you end the friendship completely then there will be knock-on consequences for the whole social group.  If things truly are platonic now and you don’t have a hidden agenda, why shouldn’t you remain friends if you share the same social circle?

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How to talk to your ex girlfriend

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Everything started for me in this very forum. I cannot appreciate all the good literature I came into contact here, especially from Savoy, Braddock ... the Beatrice post ... the Ex-girlfriend post ... "how to recuperate after fighting with a girlfriend post" etc

Everything started for me here and thats why I love it here. And Im so proud and thankful that I did very well with my ex-girlfriends.

I didnt get laid. If you are judging everything through if Im getting laid or not, I must be a failure. But Im really happy because I handled myself with confidence and poise.

Theres two ex-girlfriends on my college campus. I hadnt talked to them for over 8,9 months because I was away from college on an exchange program to Japan. So when I came back to campus, I was a little nervous. Yes, I had learned a lot of new stuff about attraction but wouldnt I change back into that needy, stupid little AFC that I was when I was with them??

WRONG FUCK THAT SHIT WOOHOO

Ex#1 is a HB8.0. I came across her one weekend at a club on campus. I was having a blast at the club like I always do and caught her kinda looking bored and with a couple friends standing around the dance floor. I approached her with energy and excitement.

Me: Hey!! HB!! Long time no see right!?
Ex#1: (smiles) ohh hey!!! yeah long time no see!
Me: I didnt expect to see you here. You look good!
Ex#1: haha thanks! you too!
Me: oh you know me! I always look good! Lets dance! (grab her hand)
Ex#1: ohh ok!! (giggles)

I tear apart on dance floor with energy so I was just making her laugh the whole time and she started grinding on me. I was like "shit where did you learn that!" haha .. the thing is, when we broke up, i was really immature and needy so I didnt expect to talk to her ever again because she was pretty disgusted and disappointed in me. But not seeing each other for almost a year and me coming in with NO AWKWARDNESS and just energy and confidence is what changed our interaction. I told her later "hey lets get dinner together later!" and she was like "sure!" and we met up for dinner a couple weeks later.

She was kinda being a bratty little bitch at the dinner. I mean, my humor is great so I made her laugh a few times but she wasnt being very good company. HAHA what was the most fun was when she said "You developed a different persona since you came back from your study-abroad in Japan and Im not the only one who thinks that!!" I was like HAHAHAHA and then she was like "yeah you are all big-headed now ... like a tool! or a .. a douchebag!!" HAHAHAHAHAHAHAA AWESOME

Whatever. I made fun of her, pushed her around a little bit, made jokes about her still being a virgin. She was like "I mean, yeah, but I feel bad for girls who have sex all the time. Im saving it up for somebody special and ... and If I were a guy, I wouldnt like a girl whos fucked 3,4 guys before her anyways! Im so much better than them" I was like "HAHA WTF? I dont fucking care about that. Who cares? A girls sexual experience has nothing to do with me. If she is cool, fits with my personality and good at sex, what more can I ask??" she started getting pissed after that so I just kept making fun of her more and I just had a blast. She was pissy at first but started laughing later in the night. We said goodbye and I dont expect to see her around that much. I realized how much I had grown from the last time I was with her, how nervous I was when talking to her during dinner ... hahaha ... the funny thing is, while I was walking home with her, I realized how not-that-attractive-than-I-used-to-think-so she was. She looked shorter, less pretty than I used to imagine her. Huh, funny that. Eh, I can do better.

Ex #2. She was my beatrice. Physically she is only a 7 but she understands my humor better than anybody.

When you meet your ex-girlfriend for the 1st time in a long time, you have a choice. You can either make it extra-awkward by being shy, self-conscious or needy and desperate or something along those lines. WTF? Why? I would rather make her miss me by making her think about how happy and cool and funny i was when I was with her! Thats what I did.

We had such a great dinner together. Whenever I say something funny, it hits with her all the time. We just started joking around as soon as we met at night and at the end, we were shoving each other, hitting each other, laughing, singing ...

The point is not to try-hard but just be yourself and free and funny. Why would this be hard? you did it with her when you were having a relationship together right?

I told her at the end of the night "looks like you are happy with a new boyfriend and Im happy for you. I dont plan to show up often in your life. But I dont like burning bridges. If you ever want to talk to me again, let me know" she smiled and said "you too ... I had a good time. I will call you"
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How to text girlfriend for good night

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Giving your girl that last little memory of you before she heads off to bed is enough to keep her excited about you all through the night. Sending her a good night text message is a sweet, thoughtful way to be at the top of her mind and feel warm and fuzzy about you. If you want her to think of you morning, noon and night, send her off with sweet dreams with a text goodnight.

 

Instructions



o        1. Write out your message ahead of time so you know exactly what you want to say before you send it. Decide if youre going to send a sweet, romantic, funny or inspirational message to her.
o        2. Say something like, "Hope you get good rest tonight, cant wait to see you in the morning," to take the sweet approach or "William Shakespeare says Good night, good night! Parting is such sweet sorrow, that I shall say good night till it be morrow," to show her that youre a hopeless romantic.
o        3. Avoid sending her a long message. Limit your message to one, no more than two separate messages so shes not bombarding with a string of your messages back-to-back. Keep it short and sweet to let her know youre thinking of her.
o        4. Time your message to reach her at the right time. Send your message when she is getting ready to go to bed. Avoid sending the message too early where shes not going to sleep any time soon but not too late where she wont receive the message until the morning.
o        5. Add a signature line to your text if you dont normally text her or if perhaps she does not have your number saved in her phone. Rid the risk of an awkward execution by her responding back, "Who is this?" Add your name or nickname she would remember to the end of the text.
o        6. Type your message in to your text block. Read your message aloud and double check for errors. Press send when youre ready for her to receive your message.







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